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| Introduction |
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The
Slater Society welcomes individuals of all orientations and all
genders who are interested in the art of fisting, be it vaginal
or anal. Currently there are no dues, no membership requirements,
and no officers. |
| Our
Name |
|
The
Society is named for Cynthia Slater. You can find out more about
the wonderful woman by clicking on the "Dedication" button
on the right. |
| Our
Leader |
|
The
Slater Society founder and organizer par excellence is
Joanne; click on the "Joanne" button at right to learn
more about her |
| Our
Logo |
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The
well-known gay erotic artist, The Hun, drew the hot logo for
The Slater Society. It was based on a picture of Joanne's hand
and the hand of Ryan Goldner, International Drummerboy 1998,
taken at Mid-Atlantic Leather in Washington, DC, in January 2001.
A delightful, generous, and caring gentleman, The Hun donated
the logo to The Slater Society. |
| Fisting
Definition |
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| Fist-ing
(fist'ing) n. |
| 1. |
An
archaic but prevalent term for the retrograde exploration
of the digestive tract with the hand and arm, for purposes
of sexual pleasure. |
| 2. |
A
term suggesting violence and sleaze, chains & motor
oil. |
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| Hand-ball-ing
(hand'bol'ing) |
| 1. |
A
term for the same activity, with more of an emphasis
on intimate love-making and spiritual communion |
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| What,
Exactly, is Fisting? |
|
Fisting
is manipulation and exploration of the vagina—and/or the
anus, anal canal, rectum, and sometimes the descending and transverse
colon with the hand, wrist, forearm and beyond, in a sensually
pleasurable way. It usually sounds both painful and repugnant
to the uninitiated—as does all virtually all sexual activity. Once
it's experienced, however, most people describe it as the most
erotic sensation possible |
| The
Ecstasy |
|
In
anal fisting, the pleasurable sensations of other anal intercourse
(such as manipulation of the prostrate in a man) are at play,
but there is much more. The anus is rich with nerve endings and
there is also an intense intimacy created of significant connectedness.
Participants often describe venturing into other levels of consciousness
or even blasting into outer space. There is a feeling of being
open and full of your companion, and there is a feeling of trust
between the partners, impossible to reach by any other means. |
| The
Risks |
|
The
initial reaction of most people of most people is: "Isn't
this dangerous?" It certainly can be if performed without
care and training. The greatest potential risk is trauma: bruising
and soreness to the muscles, and possibly scratching or puncturing
of the digestive tract lining. If the participants do not know
or care what they are doing, these problems are not only possible,
they are likely |
| Learning
to "Catch" |
|
An
inexperienced fistee owes it to himself to learn at the hands
of someone who has significant experience. An experienced bottom
knows how to select partners who can be trusted. Without such
discretion, a bottom will not likely have a long history in fisting. |
| Learning
to "Pitch" |
|
Tops
usually learn their skills with experienced bottoms, or in many
cases, people develop both skills together. There is much to
be said for the joys of versatility. The best tops are usually
skilled at being bottom as well. |
